Follow-up to Selflessness

I succeeded in creating a heated debate from my previous post. It's always rewarding to take in other points of view to assuage my own and see how much my stubborn side budges. Maybe I've read too much Schopenhauer, watched too much news and/or have visited one to many poor countries but no argument changes how I feel about adoption. I don't believe in the Bell Curve as a measure of success so "good genes or not" everybody is capable of becoming an Albert Einstein, Rembrandt or President of the U.S. (obviously). It might be more difficult for those with impairments or lower I.Q.'s but nothing is impossible with the right attitude. And until you've been in places with thousands of babies waiting for their turn at adoption (the documentary I shot last year) it's hard to embrace artificial insemination, hormone treatments and/or parents having more than 2 or 3 children before considering adoption. Parents who have no way to support, nurture, provide and positively influence a child’s life do the most noble thing - they give someone else a chance to do so. What could be more gratifying to the child, the parent as well as the couple adopting? I'm searching for enlightenment here so anyone with a wiser understanding of this would be appreciated!